Learning to be grateful, excited for what's to come.

Hey beautiful people, I’m Viktoriya Nedelcheva! You know that friend you can call any time of the day and they will always have time to hear you out! That was (still sometimes) me!

I was the person who would cheer her friends up when they had relationship problems, the person who would come and make you soup if you were sick, the person who would always mention her people’s names in a room full of opportunities. But cheering up for myself? Making soup for myself? I was that same person praising everybody else to heaven, except for MYSELF! YES a few years back that was my reality!

 

I mean we have all been called names such as; ugly, stupid, fat ass, dirty foreigner, too loud, show off or fake. When it comes to name calling I have heard it all, from my closest family members, classmates, teachers and (so called) friends.

 

But the worst is if you have to hear this every single moment of the day IN YOUR OWN HEAD, WITH YOUR OWN VOICE and YOUR OWN WORDS!

 

This was my reality two years ago, when I just became a mom. I was standing in front of the mirror and I was crying and I wanted so badly to be able to say something positive about myself. I was sick of it! Every negative thought about myself I changed into a positive one and I looked at myself in the mirror and said these positive beliefs out loud and proud.

That’s the moment I realized that I had to hear these words out loud for myself in order to believe them.